*choice of

words*

Take your favorite cloth and throw it in the thorn bushes so that it gets tangled badly. And when they get badly tangled in these bushes, then pull them out. 

what happened?? The fabric is torn??? If not torn, there were many holes in it, the cloth started to look old and rotten. 

As a result, that cloth is no longer for your use. 

Just like that, the soul is pierced when you take the wrong advantage of someone's trust, confidence, respect, love and honor, whether it is your children, your parents, your siblings, friends or your work. The person who does it is your employee. 

Analyze a few situations and draw your own conclusion:

First statement:

The house is full of guests, you shouted at your child and humiliated him in front of everyone, thinking that he is still a child. 

That child was learning that his parents are his support, his support system, but instead of supporting him, the parents disturbed him. 

Second truth

The child is worried and comes to you and tells his problem. 

Your problems never end. You can never solve any of your problems by yourself. 

When will you think to yourself, when will you improve, will you ever know anything good from your side or not? 

Did you have faith, trust, trust and faith in you? 

Another fact:

The child came home happy today, got full marks in his test or he won on sports day. 

He wants to share his happiness with you first. 

Today everyone will be very happy, I will also get gifts. 

Your reaction: Thank you, you won once, you got full marks, thank you, you did something good. Well what do I do now? What a great achievement, it was only a test. Well, your heart is only in sports, focus on your studies. 

Not even a word of encouragement. 

The child had come thinking that you will be happy in his success, but what did you do? 

Another fact:

Let's take a scenario of husband and wife:

The wife, tired from the whole day, the food was not hot enough and it rained. 

What are you doing all day? 

He did not ask about the situation. 

what happened? You believed it, but what did you do? 

Take another example:

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Tired of the whole day, the husband came home and began to complain, sometimes to his mother-in-law, sometimes to his father-in-law, sometimes to his son-in-law or his children. 

Hey, he had come home in search of peace. 

Be very careful in your choice of words and your behavior. Thorny words pierce the heart, mind and soul badly. 

Feeling is the most important thing. Create a sense within yourself