* 🌹 In the name of God the Most Merciful 🌹*
* 🌺 Peace be upon you and the mercy and blessings of God 💐*
*♦️Never criticize your wife in front of anyone...♦️*
*Especially for married brothers*
* A big mistake usually made by husbands is that they stop their wife for her mistake in front of people. people*
They make fun of him in front of *. In front of people, they are disrespectful and reprimanded. By themselves they become good.*
*Others get the message to see how much control I have at home. Scolded his wife in front of his sister, scolded his wife in front of his mother. It became very good in the eyes of sister and mother that yes, our son has a lot of control at home. On the other hand, the sister keeps saying that my
* The brothers have good control over the house. Thus, he became very good in the eyes of his mother and sister, but in reality, in the eyes of his wife, he made his dignity zero. Because everyone has their own self-respect. When someone's self-esteem is hurt, then that person's heart will be broken and this is one of the major sins.
* If a small child is scolded in front of people, he starts crying because his self-esteem is hurt, then a woman grows up after all. He cares more about his self-respect, so he should take care of his wife's self-respect. If you want to advise him, do it in private, and if you want to praise him, do it in front of people.
* Make it the principle of life. In solitude, if you tell your wife to be rude, she will bear it, but it is difficult to bear humiliation in front of people, so keep in mind that you should never criticize your wife in front of others. She is your life partner. A little time is given to both of them in separation, explain to each other what needs to be explained, but if you talk like this in public, then your position will be unbalanced.*
Scholars have written that when a child falls in loneliness, he gets hurt more, he does not cry and gets up. But if he falls in front of people, he starts crying even if he gets even half hurt. So that his honor in front of the people was hurt. He is not crying in pain. Crying because of hurt self-esteem. Therefore, the husband should not let his wife's self-respect be hurt, it would be very painful for the woman.
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