🥀 _* Daughters who do not leave the threshold of their mothers even after marriage, whom do they harm?*

In our society, until the daughters get married, the mother remains a burden on the chest of the father, and after marriage, the same daughters become the approval of the father, especially the mother. Mothers confuse their own married daughters by calling or calling them to their homes so that neither the daughter-in-law can settle her house nor her own daughter-in-law, who is married in the mother's house, can settle her own house. Be

low we will describe the reasons due to which well-established houses break down

*competes with sister-in-law*

Married daughters often come home and compare their lives with their brothers-in-law, for example, if their financial status is better than that of their brother-in-law, they will express it out loud like, "Hey, we are so-and-so." We went to the hotel to eat, but we will go to such and such a place to celebrate the holidaysThe purpose of the talk is to show one's eminence and to humiliate the other, due to which feelings of hatred, jealousy and rivalry are awakened in the heart of brothers-in-law, and if the case is the opposite, i.e. the financial conditions of daughters are worse than that of sisters-in-law, then She is jealous of everything her sister-in-law has, mother and brotherThey object to the same thing that their sister-in-law has. If not, she demands the same thing from her husband, which if she cannot fulfill due to tight hand, then it becomes a cause of fight. 

Interference in private matters

Who went to eat where? 

When did you come back? 

Mom, why did you make the food? 

Why does sister-in-law sleep so long? 

Brother-in-law has put sister-in-law on the head. These are the questions and objections that married daughters ask their mother and family when they come to their homes. How should the mother-in-law and father-in-law understand whether it is a daughter-in-law or not? Bhabhi is an independent person who has her own thoughts and ways of life. If you can't bear to look at the other's form, say Nand BhaiAnd it becomes a cause of disharmony between sisters-in-law. There are many instances where the house of the sisters-in-law was ruined due to the filling of the ears of the sisters-in-law and the result was in the form of divorce. 

Being detached from your home husband and in-laws

In all these situations, when girls fall in love with their husbands, their attention is completely diverted from their own home or in-laws. What are the responsibilities? Gradually, she loses her position in the in-laws and also falls from her husband's heart

The daily comings and goings lose value

If a married daughter or Nand goes to sleep sometimes, the mother as well as the sister-in-law also come and offer good food and dishes are decorated on the table. With a sweet smile on her face, sister-in-law used to treat Nand with great gentleness and mannerswhich gives the daughter a sense of respect and dignity, while going every day makes it worthless and often she has to go and take the porridge from the kitchen by herself and during this time even if the husband is with her. Respect also goes away

*ruining children*

Girls who always want to settle down in Mackay are the real victims of their own children's behavior. Children who are constantly seeking attention from their parents also become victims of their mother's negligence, which results in either poor health. Either it comes in the form of poor academic performance or it's the mother's lookRiots also adopt the attitude of mischief and foul language

The main culprit behind this problem is the girls' own mothers who distract their daughters from their homes by repeatedly calling them or calling them home. Advise them to focus on the children and not involve them in your household problems and mother-in-law quarrelsMothers should understand the importance of the fact that after marriage, the real home of their daughters is their husband's house and not Mecca. Kar has come to his house

Apart from this, daughters should also understand that the purpose of life is to advance their journey and this is possible only when they focus on their own affairs instead of others, make their home and children the center of their attention, live life in a better way. To waste your precious moments by getting lost in other people's problems