*Old friends are precious*
1: Although "friendship is the name of whether you bury your friend or he should bury you" it means that friendship lasts until the time of death. That many friends come in our life and gradually go away after a short or long period of time. Someone has said that the example of life is like standing on a beach and friends are coming and going like waves. One of the reasons for this is the sentimentality found in people. Some people pour all their love into the first week of dating, then they have nothing left to give, so they find a new friend.
2: Human life generally passes through two periods. A period is when he sets out in pursuit of a destination. Its purpose is to achieve the essence of success through hard work, austerity and difficulties.
Then comes a time when the seeds planted by him turn into fruitful trees and he begins to reap the fruits of his labor and effort.
It often happens that friends change during these two periods. As man progresses, new friends are made and old friendships are lost. Like a plant that withers away due to lack of attention.
Due to this situation, successful people have to face many disadvantages. The reason for this is that the circle of new friends and acquaintances that are formed after the achievement of advancement and success are usually flattering, parasitic and unworthy people. These are no substitutes for old friends. The style and sincerity with which old friends can advise, criticize and correct is not possible for new friends. That's why old friends always open up and point out mistakes. And prevents a person from many wrong decisions.
A fool is a person who loses a sincere friend or neglects old friends. Doesn't value them, prefers new hollow friends, eventually pays a heavy price for it all.
3: Praise be to Allah, the poor man has many friends. Some are very old, some are just made. New old friends are kept meeting but the pleasure and comfort found in old friends is not available with new friends. The way you talk to old friends is not the same way you talk to new friends.
Just recently I met a long time school friend. What should I tell you if the game was established and if the server was found? Subhan Allah
4: Why do people leave old friends?
Perhaps one of the reasons is that some people want to forget their past. They don't want anyone to know anything but their rise. Old friends are frank, they know your early days and are frank in the same way you were when you were nothing. Because of this frankness, sometimes they fear that something they say will make a difference to their artificial honor, so they also distance themselves from old friends. It should be that a person should explain his confusion to his friends in this regard as well. Wise people will understand this situation.
If I were to speak fully on this point, it would be too much. In short, "old friends are precious" they hold you up as a mirror of reality and support you when you fall, while the circle of friends that emerge after success is often like foam. A few are like pure gold in it, the rest are mere illusions of the eyes. Which disappear from the eyes when needed.
Get up! If an old friend of yours is angry at you for not paying attention, comfort him because "old friends are precious."
Note: Termination of certain friends is a requirement of Sharia. Bad friends whether new or old should be avoided and cautious.
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