The main cause of divorce and divorce in the society
(Great write-up on an important topic...must read)
You go to any dating site and there are hundreds of letters on a weekly basis from men, not women, asking if our wife is "in love" with someone else. She is asking me for divorce. I also have small children or children. Tell me what to do
A letter came in Darulifta, in which the husband had written that "When the wife opened her eyes at night, she was not in bed, when she came out of the bedroom, she was lying on the sofa and busy with the mobile phone." Now she is asking for divorce from me and we have a child too”.
I myself have heard these incidents that women have betrayed their trust behind their husbands.
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Divorce is the most displeasing of all lawful acts to Allah."
A religious scholar said well, "This nation is ready to die for Islam, but it is not ready to live for Islam."
You should study the Quran from Surah Al-Baqara to Wal-Nas. You will not get the details of one of the duties of prayer, fasting, Hajj, Zakat. You will not even see what is the method of prayer? You will not even know the praises of these prayers.
But marriage, divorce, separation, marriage, matrimonial affairs, husband and wife relations, domestic violence, more or less disagreements. You will find everything in this most holy book of Allah, which we and you They keep kissing.
You must admit that intolerance is the main reason for divorce and divorce in our society.
Hazrat Ali (AS) said, "When religion comes to the man of the house, it is as if it comes to the threshold of the house, but if religion comes to the woman of the house, then the religion goes to her for seven generations."
Sacrifice, self-sacrifice, kindness, mercy, forgiveness, love and respect are mentioned in the dictionary of Islam and Quran. The wonder is that couples who do not live in a "joint family" get divorced more quickly.
The endless desires of women have also turned the society into a hell.
Electronic media TV-serial films have created an idol like "Shah Rukh Khan" in the hearts of even the girls living in the villages and slums...
Ingratitude is also the biggest factor in the destruction of domestic life. Be it less or more, get it or not get it or never get less, still be grateful to your husband in any situation.
The biggest disaster has been caused by WhatsApp and Facebook social media.
Earlier, when girls were angry or angry, they had no means of access to parents and other people. The husband would come home in the evening, hold his wife's hand and say four words of love, sometimes take her to eat ice cream. And sometimes, on the pretext of a walk, they would get together for a while, and thus the whole day's angerComplaints used to be resolved.
But the anger did not come here and it did not reach all the family members on WhatsApp.
Here Madam Sahiba's "mode off" happened and the status was uploaded on Facebook. And then this magic of social media blooms that the entire family is ruined or the result is suicide...
Mothers explain to the girls that God! Do not compare your husband with your fathers. Your husband may not be able to give you all that you had in your father's house.
But remember that fifty, sixty years of your father's life have passed in the tourism of this desert and your husband has just stepped into this desert. You will get everything and God willing, you will get better than your mother, even if you don't get it, make a habit of gratitude and you will definitely get peace and satisfaction.
Wives should learn to praise their husbands and husbands should learn to respect their wives on small things.
Make forgiveness a habit in life.
For the sake of God, make it a habit to prepare and live for your husband more than outsiders. To show the whole world, "make up" well, but don't do it "shaking your head" for your husband.
God also needs your attention five times to express love. We are human beings, express love as often as possible, even by giving gifts. The first thing that will be weighed in the scales on the Day of Judgment will be the behavior of husband to wife and wife to husband.
remember
A man has the same position in the house as the head of the government in the state. If instead of improving the state, you are always willing to rebel against the head, then it will be difficult for the state to survive. Learn to give the same respect and status to whomever Allah has given, whether you are a man or a woman.
An ideal home creates an ideal family and an ideal family creates a healthy society and this is the purpose of Islam.
A few days ago, there was a post about some things about men, and there is a post about women
So do not mix the two things
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