2. Keep your essential medicines with you. Do not ask for tea or coffee before burial. Remember, you have come to the funeral, not the party. Consider the feelings of the deceased's family
3. Keep your overdramatic emotions to yourself. Don't try to prove that you are the most miserable by beating and whining or talking. keep silent. remember! The family is currently going through a very difficult time. It's their loss, not yours
4. Do not force the family of the deceased to cry or not cry. Keep your opinion to yourself. Every person reacts differently to grief. Don't be a psychologist about whether or not crying is good for them
5. Never tell the family of the deceased that your world has fallen apart. Everything is over...or else..she used to get tension, but in that tension she went to Allah. Keep this matter of knowing the state of others' hearts under control within yourself
6. Give the family of the deceased time with the deceased, give them some space. Do not ride on them.
7. If you could not see the deceased for the last time due to rush or any other reason, then don't cry. You won't make any significant difference
8. God, stop asking "what happened" "how did it happen" if you don't know the details of the deceased's illness and death, then it doesn't matter.
9. Avoid gossip and unnecessary conversation in the house of the deceased. Who has worn what, who has come and who has not, who has had a relationship and who is still single.... This is not an opportunity to find and connect relationships. Leave these things for another time.
10. Do not take pictures of the deceased and their families in this sad state.
The heirs need time to recover from this grief. Try to understand them. Any of you can come into such a situation at any time.
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