Fall of family system in Pakistan...!

Fall of family system in Pakistan...! 

In our time, our grandfather had sixteen or seventeen children and four wives. 

None of the children have seen the face of the school. 

When the children raised their heads, they were pushed into the crops and fields, the one who fetched a cow from another village would pass the primary, the one who took the plow would pass the matriculation, the one who would be employed in a mill would do MA. So the parents' expenses were nothing, the profit was the profit, so the parents were sometimes frustratedThe mother and sister of the children were not together, the narrator used to write chain-hi-chain, if the child's mustache got wet or warts broke out, a link from the same mansion was taken and married to him and the cot and a bucket of water were placed on the roof. Marriages were usually given to a boy of 16 years and a girl of 14 years. This was almost the custom of the villages, the parents were Sikhs, the children used to come with one mouth and two hands, even if the children were ten, they would pick peanuts and bring them, even if they earned their own bread for the day and went home in the evening. used to come

There was no sale of jewels, no cheating by agents, no push from NADRA, no cursing by parents and no depression of children. There was no monetary self destruction even in years. Frustration was not present in both generations due to the failure of

Then the era changed, Mangala brought the Kashmiris to London, then the rest of the region also took it. Lost in the forest of desires, those who arrived are the state of ATM or GoCash cardThey used to earn and send their children and try to make their children educated and get a good job. Competition started in education because the people of India were educated and they used to work in office jobs while the Pakistanis were lower level. used to work

When electricity came to the villages, they also brought Davlins, and other electrical equipment was also imported. They would also come as guests for a month while traveling around the country, what about the children in a monthIt goes on, Fatih Khwani was not completed when the holiday was over, when the facilities were provided, the children continued to deteriorate and the mother continued to hide and the men went on working 16, 16 hours indiscriminately and sending them home. 

Cursing of children started, accounting of expenses started, education was cursed and cold war started between parents and children, education became tough day by day, it was not the education of forty years ago when English It used to start from sixth class and till matric we were taught to correct the English alphabetMy best friend, my father, I used to matriculate on Hungry Fox and Thirsty Crow. Even if the child did not pass even after studying at night, he was humiliated so much at home, he was literally abused by his mother and sister. The beatings were so severe that if the neighbors came and rescued them, even the mother would not dare to go near them. 

On the days of the result, the police guard the canal bridges because the failed children prefer to go to the grave instead of going home after hearing the result, the parents go around showing the expense reports and the children are lying on their bodies. shows the signs of, that is, instead of this education, these expensesInstead, if nothing happened, the relationship between parents and children would have been established. She brought a suit and asked her to sew it and wear it, but the woman might have given the suit to her daughter. It would be, but this woman, when she saw this poor woman, would immediately ask, "Aunty hasn't sewn that suit yet?" So much so that Aunty started to change her path after seeing this woman, then she would Passing through the street when there was no chance of meeting this woman on the road, but one day in the morning the poor woman was caught andThis woman had just told my aunt that my aunt stood with her hands folded, 

, "For the prosperity of God, if you have given me a suit, let me inhabit this point."     

This is what happens to the children that it is God's will, if you are studying, don't play this melody day and night, you will become depressed after listening to it. 

The parents have already filled the child with hatred long ago, when he gets married and starts earning, his attitude towards the parents is cold, which makes it seem as if the newcomer has filled his ears. Otherwise, our moon would not have been like this. Only because of their own carelessness, the sons are disobedient, then the parents put such burdens on them that they are unable to fulfill the rights of their children, thus a war starts in the house. It happens when the wife sees the right of her children going backwards, parents still do the sameThey say that we have planted so much and spent so much, so everything is ours, and the hadith is quoted that you and your wealth belong to your father, while in Shariat, in the presence of children, the sixth part belongs to the father. And the sixth part belongs to the mother, the wife gets the eighth part and the rest belongs to the children, but by explaining this hadith. The right of children is also killed. 

Fathers ask for 10 lakhs and 18 lakhs for the marriage of their daughters, plot and house installments are separate, as if every effort is made to keep the earning son from hand to mouth and he should take anything from his wife and children. If he could not make it, the son should send his children to Pakistan to fulfill the requirements of the parents, then his children thereIf you get sick, no one is willing to take you to the hospital, the son is loved and has enmity with his wife and children, the son becomes mentally ill, his parents are Pakistan and his children are made into India. By serving, he is declared a traitor to his parents. 

If you go to Pakistan, the environment is polluted by domestic politics, just when the meal is ready, the children are sitting, the sister or the niece will call to say that the meal is to be eaten with us, and that is all. He is left lying in front of the children and he goes to eat with his nieces, his wifeShe keeps her mouth shut and calls her brother and sister home and calls her brother and sister and she does not understand this politics, this child also harbors hatred against uncles and aunts and grandparents who usually It is believed that their mother is full whereas in reality the attitude of father and dadhyal is poison in themfills

Now when it comes to relationships, then the possibility of having a relationship with each other has ended, and both parties are looking for relationships outside, grandparents make their own children so hostile to each other. Because of their politics, no further relationship is possible, each party hates the otherHe will take revenge from my daughter, and one party says that they had seduced my husband before, now how can I hand over my son to them. 

In fact, the community system in Pakistan remains only in the identity card, it has practically lost its existence, believe it or not, this is the reality..!