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"The poison of obscenity"

 

 

The world is full of pornography. Advertising, fashion, movies, music, video games, and magazines are full of it. People see it on TV, computers, mobile phones, and the internet. It seems that today people take viewing, reading, or listening to pornographic material very lightly. The site is available everywhere, and the number of people who like it has increased dramatically. — See the box “Some Facts About Pornography.”

 

Today, pornography has become more vulgar than ever. In this regard, Professor Gail Dines wrote: "The kind of obscenity that was considered highly vulgar a few years ago is now considered mildly obscene."

 

If you think that after marriage you will be able to get rid of this senseless act, then you are wrong. Because it is clear from the research that even after marriage, most men suffer from this disease and never get relief. 

This is a disease that will not take long to ruin your married life. 

Viewing pornography often breaks up marriages and families.

It destroys trust, love, and sexual attraction between husband and wife.

It encourages selfishness and creates a rift in the relationship between husband and wife.

Creates a desire to perform indecent sexual acts

 

 

In the event that a man is dependent on watching pornography recordings and is hitched, what should the spouse do in such a circumstance?

 

Muslim sister, feel free to tell your significant other about this, so conversing with him is the endlessly best thing to settle it.

 

You should preach and advise him and say something good and eloquent to him, remind him of the punishment of Allah Almighty and His displeasure, make him fear the punishment of Hellfire, make him feel the trust and responsibility towards his family, and remind him, the Prophet (peace be upon him). Peace be upon him says:

 

Each one of you is a ruler, and everyone will be asked about his subjects. A man is responsible for his family, and he will be accountable for his subjects. 

 

And he has the right on you to tell him that what he is doing with you is a sin and disobedience, and watching such immoral and evil movies will turn him away from Allah and His remembrance. Let him become soft and get advice. 

 

You should treat him like this several times, keeping in mind his wisdom and interests. If he still does not accept your words, then, in your opinion, get support and help from those who can be of some benefit in this problem, such as scholars, and his Among the relatives and relatives, good people who are good people or those of him friends whose words he does not reject. 

 

Second:

 

You should try to listen to him some cassettes of speeches and educational lessons, whether they are direct or indirect, and you should also present him with some Islamic books that are on this subject. . 

 

Third:

 

And if all this does not prove to be beneficial, then you should appoint a person from among you and his family as a judge, about whom you think that because of their interference, relations will be good and they will be away from this evil and sin and evil. It will happen, and those people must also be reformists, because Allah Ta'alaKafirman is:

 

And if you feel a mutual fear between husband and wife, then appoint one of the men and one of the woman's family; if they both want to reconcile, then Allah will bring them together. Indeed, Allah is all-knowing. Al-Nisa is the most knowledgeable (35). 

 

If these two judges want to make amends, then we pray to Allah Almighty to reconcile you and allow you to come together on goodness and obedience, and to create love between you both like a husband and wife in a good way and bring you together.